Retired Director's
Thank You
Greetings,
A very special thank you to so many friends for making
our/my 20th anniversary Rosebowl Classic so much fun. The many
compliments at our awards banquet in June, 2003 were so comforting. I
was sincerely overwhelmed. Thank you to my long time friend and early
tournament advisor, Ron Sperry. I will always treasure the beautifully
engraved crystal award. And to Brian Gregory and Steve Leaming of
Portland, the engraved plaque will forever grace my wall.
Joe Brown, our IGBO representative: I wish I had
recorded this banquet for posterity. I don't think in my entire
lifetime, anyone has ever said such eloquent and caring things about me.
It is truly heart warming to finally realize that some people really did
care. Wow!
I'd like to share my thank you thoughts from our 20th
anniversary program.
Twenty five years! A quarter of a century! Where do
they go? Gone in a blink! Gone, but forever etched in my heart and memory
as probably the best years of my life.
Each wrinkle, each silver strand of hair, (and
regrettably each pound) tell a story of fun, frivolity, numerous cocktails
and literally hundreds of new-found friendships. While those many years are
packed full of incredible memories, they also include long hours of hard
work, years of heartache watching helplessly the ones you love affected by
our community's scourge of AIDS, and alas the rare, but occasional
controversies that also seem to beset our community events.
When I held my first bowling event on a Sunday morning
August 28th in 1976, I never imagined that 27 years later, I
would be celebrating 25 years of a Portland Community Bowling Association
and 20 years of Portland Rosebowl Classics. They weren't even in my mind
back on that Sunday morning. I simply wanted to have a party-function to
provide a different directionƒa different diversion from the ordinary Sunday
morning cocktails on a barstool.
I have met some incredibly wonderful people from so
many cities. I never realized how sheltered my life had been until I began
to travel and party within our sphere of influence (which is nearly
everywhere). Through our bowling associations I have had the pleasure of
meeting some of the nicest, most supportive friends I could ever ask for.
From the boys down south in Auckland to friends in Washington, DC and all
points in between, bowling has opened up new avenues and precious doors of
opportunities.
I owe a great debt of gratitude to all my fellow
tournament directors, from whom I gleaned so many new ideas and directions
in the early days of Rosebowl. By learning from them and then adding my own
unique twists and creativity, I am immensely proud of our community's long
string of successful Rosebowl Classics.
It has been my pleasure, as well as a great source of
pride, to have organized and directed our League and The Classic for this
quarter century. Bowling has been good for me, providing me an outlet for
expending an inordinate amount of energy for one human being. It has
provided me shelter in time of loss (employment, parents, relationships,
etc.).
I was raised to believe that commitments are to be
honored. The commitment to our community has kept me going through numerous
trials and tribulations, occasional hangovers, and even through the
heartbreaking end of a couple of long term relationships.
I can't imagine what my life would have been like today
if I had not found you. That idea is the driving force behind my dedication
to our association. I love the involvement! But even more significantly, I
love doing my part for all of you ¿ my extended family. This is my way of
thanking and showing appreciation for giving me a reason to enjoy life.
I thank my community for standing by me through thick
and thin, controversy and fun times. Being human, I have made my share of
mistakes, and during times of stress, may not have always expressed myself
as well as I could have. Being in the public scrutiny for a quarter of a
century can have its drawbacks along with its rewards. Thank goodness and
thank you for the fun times which were far more prevalent.
Bowling is no longer just a sport. It is an
opportunity to compete, communicate and have fellowship with individuals of
all ages, both sexes and from diverse interests. It is an inducement to be
an active part of something. It is an entitlement to a sense of pride.
For these simple values, I am proud to have done my
part for our community. I thank you all, my family here in Portland, and
our extended family of friends from around the globe, for having allowed me
this opportunity to have served you over these many years.
While we celebrate 20 years of the Rosebowl Classic,
and 25 years of the Portland Community Bowling Association, in some
respects, I consider this my anniversary as well. I'd like to dedicate
these two anniversaries to all my friends, our friends and your friends.
Without each other, this world would be a dark and lonely place.
In love and fellowship,
Tom Giel
RETIRED Executive Director
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Below are
special thank yous to special people and groups who were instrumental in the
formation and continuance of the first 25 years of the Portland Community
Bowling Association and of 20 years of Rosebowl Classic.
Special Thank Yous
Over a quarter of a
century you make countless friends, and you experience even more support and
guidance than imaginable. In this space I would like to take the time to
acknowledge and recognize those individuals who had an impact on our bowling
community.
Steve
Suss, owner of the Embers Avenue.
Without questions or doubts, Steve placed his complete trust in my dream to
establish a league and a tournament for our city. Without Steve, without
his incredible support of every organization, of every sport and/or
fundraiser, I seriously doubt our community could ever survive. Steve has
provided his establishment, continuously for three decades for shows,
fund-raisers, awards banquets, special events, community meetings and even
as a food storage facility for Esther's Pantry providing food and comfort to
those afflicted by AIDS. The Embers has served in the role of a community
service center therein helping to shape our community into what it is
today. It is due to Steve's big heart, his compassion for those in need and
his dedication to our community that we are the community we are today. It
is rare to find business owners who place the value of its citizenry above
the value of a dollar.
Gayle
Kennedy, owner of the Dirty Duck Tavern.
On more than one occasion, Gail has been there for support and guidance. A
smiling face, a warm heart and an extended hand are characteristic of this
community supporter. But of course what else would you expect. She comes
from good stock. Her mother, Mama Bernice, previously owned the Dirty
Duck. Mama Bernice also owned ñThe Other Innî a levi and leather bar, on SW
2nd and Alder, which closed down in the 80's. Mama Bernice was
known as the Mother of our community. She called us her little ñbluebirdsî
flying over the rainbow.
The
Imperial Sovereign Rose Court.
For those who aren't familiarƒ.read our PCBA history. If it hadn't been for
the Rose Court and its infrastructure, a lot of us would still be stuck in
the 70's. The Rose Court has spearheaded events and fundraising for over
three decades. While some may poke fun of the dress up and make believe
world of Emperors, Empresses, and other title holders, it has been this
organization that everyone turns to in time of need to ñput on a show.î
(And geeƒeven our straight world counterparts created the mythical Realm of
Rosaria, more commonly known as the Portland Rose Festival, complete with
white-suited knights known as the Royal Rosarians who conduct public
knighting ceremonies.)
The Rose Court's
influence goes well beyond just a fund raising, show producing
organization. Psychologically, the Rose Court provides a support group for
even the downtrodden, the lonely, the shy, the minority within a minority,
and seamlessly blends them into the culture, making all feel welcome.
Without even realizing
it, the Rose Court has provided a behavioral modification program to many,
instilling a sense of value, of worth and of strength to many community
members who, for whatever reasons, needed a mental support system to feel
good about themselves. The Rose Court provides a time, a stage, and a
support for those who search for advancement.
The International Gay
Bowling Organization (IGBO): It wasn't around when I first started
bowling events here in Portland. It was the furthest thing from my
mind. I did what I did for Portland. Becoming a part of the
larger organization meant a lot to me personally, particularly for what it
meant for Portland. I was (and still am) so proud of my home
city of Portland that I wanted everyone to hear about it. I made a lot
of acquaintances through IGBO. Admittedly there have been turbulent
discourses, but that comes along with the territory of politics and
opinions. I sincerely wish I could have traveled to more
cities and more tournaments over these twenty years, but job, financial, and
relationship constraints play a heavy role.
I thank IGBO for the great honor of their highest award - The Fellowship Award, presented
to me in Los Angeles, upon the 10th Anniversary annual IGBO
tournament by IGBO President Daryl Carter. If possible, that award means
more to me today than it did when I first accepted it. Other than 25 years
of memories, it's the only physical award I have to show for this past
quarter of a century.
And speaking of IGBO, I
wish to thank the likes of John Hammett, Ron Keel and Daryl Carter, all past
presidents of IGBO. In the 80's, both John and Ron tried to convince me to
hold an official position in IGBO, but Portland came first in my heart and
on my list of priorities. My Pacific NW brother, Daryl was probably the
most influential leader of IGBO. We may not always have agreed on the
politics and direction of IGBO, but it never diminished a long-term
respect. I was warmed and grateful to have Daryl greet me with open arms as
I exited the podium for the last time at Vancouver, BC's 20th
Anniversary awards banquet this past March.
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